Grandma’s Laddoos vs. Dentist’s Rules:

How Grandparents Love Shapes Kids’ Teeth

Dr. Aishwarya Kamble

8/19/20251 min read

If you grew up with doting grandparents, you already know the golden rule: “One more laddoo won’t hurt!” For many kids, time with grandparents means endless love, endless stories… and sometimes, endless sweets.

While parents may carefully measure out chocolates, Dadi and Nani often believe that childhood is for indulgence. The result? A happy heart but sometimes, not-so-happy teeth. 🍬

While their affection creates lifelong memories, it can also shape children’s dental habits in ways parents may not always expect.

🍭 Love Served with Sweets

For many grandparents, food is the ultimate language of love. Whether it’s Nani’s laddoos, Dadi’s barfis, or that “secret” chocolate after dinner, kids often get more sugary treats under their care. A little indulgence is sweet, but frequent snacking on sugar increases the risk of cavities in little teeth.

⏰ Routine Gets Flexible

Grandparents may not always be strict about brushing rules. A missed bedtime brushing might not seem like a big deal (“Arrey, kal se regular karenge!”). But for young children with developing teeth, even small lapses can speed up tooth decay.

💖 The Emotional Upside

It’s not all about sugar. Grandparent caregiving offers major benefits too. Kids feel emotionally secure, less stressed, and more connected to family traditions. Many grandparents also pass down old-school oral care wisdom—like rinsing after meals or avoiding sticky sweets before bed—that still makes sense today.

⚖️ Finding the Balance

Parents don’t need to stop grandparents from expressing love. Instead, some gentle steps can keep smiles safe:

  • Treats with meals: Offer sweets during mealtime instead of as constant snacks.

  • 2x2 rule: Encourage brushing twice a day, two minutes each.

  • Involve grandparents: Bring them along for dental check-ups—they’ll feel included and more aware.

🦷 Final Thought

Grandparents’ love is irreplaceable, and so is a child’s healthy smile. By blending affection with awareness, families can ensure kids enjoy both the sweetness of childhood and the strength of cavity-free teeth. After all, what’s better than a story from grandma and a sparkling smile to go with it?